12 slices firm coarse textured white bread (1 inch thick) |
3 cups extra-rich milk |
3 eggs, beaten to blend |
3 tablespoons sugar |
3 tablespoons brandy or 3 tablespoons bourbon |
1 teaspoon grated lemon peel |
1 teaspoon grated orange peel |
1 teaspoon fresh ground pepper |
1/2 teaspoon salt |
1/4 teaspoon ground nutmeg |
12 slices sharp cheddar cheese, preferably white (1 ounce each) |
6 slices baked ham (2 ounces each) |
4 tablespoons unsalted butter (1/2 stick) |
4 tablespoons vegetable oil (or more) |
powdered sugar |
1 (12 ounce) jar apricot preserves, larger pieces of fruit cut up |
3 tablespoons brandy or 3 tablespoons bourbon |
2 tablespoons superfine sugar |
1 1/2 tablespoons fresh lemon juice |
1 tablespoon water |
1/4 teaspoon grated lemon peel |